Just right now, my big boss approached me in a nice way or shall I say in a funny way regarding my absences. Well, to start of I wrote a letter if it is okay that my working schedule will be from 7:30 AM - 12:00 NN and back on 1:00 PM - 4:30 PM INSTEAD of 1:30pm - 5:00pm since I enrolled at MUST just this June 2014. And every Saturday I'll report to work at 11:00 am or at 1:30 pm na. So, more or else with this kind of set-up i know it is unfair to my co-workers aside from the fact that i'm just new in this company. Honestly, as much as i want to not to be absent but there were instances that really requires me to do so, especially when it comes to kiddos at any school activities or some personal thing and lastly is my field study which needs physical appearance in the school that we requested.
yesterday is my mom's 3rd death anniversary, owing to the fact that i don't want to be absent in the class. but what about the prayer?? i know deep inside me, mom has got something to do with the good news that we've received a week ago. i know she will move heaven and earth for that thing. that's why we decided to have a prayer at 3:00 pm. so i need to ask permission for an undertime. What struck me most is his words, "ive, wala nako nag reply gahapon kay ikaw ang pinaka most favorable employee dinhi" a simple words but totally hit me. BANG!
what does that means? as a HR murag its so ugly to looked at or set as an example to be absent most of the time. its really a big favor that he approved my working schedule request, so in lieu to that is to minimize or NOT to be absent anymore. . . can i do that?? I really want to. BUT what about my next FS??? it will be unfair to my classmates na mag "dawat-limpyo" lang ko. ask them nga sila lang ang mag observe and mag copy lang ko sa ilang observations. . . pangit kaayo. maka consciensya.
can somebody help me with this???
i need miracle . . . .
Hi Ivy, I can't seem to find the right words to say . You know nman..we almost have same situation. I also do feel the same way that you are feeling right now. I don't want to take this moment fraom you but please let me mention pud my situation.kblo baka gurl na since ngskul q i passed na may responsibilies sa aq kauban.ok man sa amo manager but then from then awkward na kau me..As what ive told you..she told me to prioritize my work..so meaning if we have some meeting i am oblige to be absent from skul kay same daw na everyone is affected kng mkalit lng q og pananghid nga mgleave.Sa tinood lng I wanna quit na.feeling man gud nko ky ang akng work gtipagcompete na sa aq skul.
ReplyDeleteCguro as a piece of advice lang from some1 who also needs an advice (hihi), let's not mind them na lang oi. If we have to be insensitive then let it be.We should focus on our goal. Ako I know I've been so unfair pud with my ofcmates but you know sumtimes when you choose sumting you have to unchoose other things also.We cant be good in all point at the same time man. But though I choose my studies that does not mean man pud na pbaya na lang jud q na employee. When i work,i give more than what is xpctd from me,bale it's my way of saying ba na i am stll d best ds compny could ever have only that i chus to take a new path but stl i want to do better as long as im here. For the nega fedbcks of curz it hurtz but i dnt mind it nlang. I just say to myself na "sagdi lng,mhuman ra jpon tnan!".always remind yourself that the road we are taking is not plain and simple,there are a lot of obstacles along the way just like our bosses so we should hold tight,.sagdi lng mkaabot ra jpn ta sa atong pdulngan..we did to sacrifice to get wt we want.,so sagdi lng gurl,,if u have to b absent dn absnt..remember its your future,not theres!
halu gurl. at least medyo na lessen up na akong burden. i know that we are not the only one having this kinda thing. . . i believe that this difficulties can be overcome and its only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable. this is our goal. this is what we want to achieve. we can serve two masters at the same time but somehow, there are some things that we will prioritize for the betterment of ourselves, our family and our future. somehow the reason most people never reach their goals is that they don’t define them or ever seriously consider them as believable or achievable. but this is what we choose to be.
ReplyDeletepa yayay lang sa light para maka excuse. . . but karun mag start napud ko himu ug script para sa next adventure nato sa school. heheheh.
tnx a bunWich gurl :D